Sunday, December 14, 2008

“Stop Playing Like a Girl!” Part 3

For the last couple of days, I’ve blogged about a dad who get annoyed when with his stepdaughters play “girlish” games like dress-up. As promised, today I’m providing some simple activities that stepdads and dads can do with their daughters to embrace and participate in girl play.


There are plenty of activities you and your daughter can share to stay connected in a healthy way while respecting your daughter’s need for independent play and physical boundaries as she grows up. Look at the following list for fun things to do together and then be inspired to find your own:


Get down on the floor and play dolls

Take dance lessons—or just make up dances @ home

Pillow fight

Gentle roughhousing

Hold hands while going for walks

Build something

Play in the pool

Lay in the hammock and look at the stars

Toboggan or sled

Give each other manicures

Let her put makeup on your face

Get dressed up yourself when she’s playing dress-up

Groom the dog


1 comments:

Anonymous said...

You can do the active fun things, too, just don't devalue the girly things. Girls can be both active and girly!